How to Get Unstuck/ Upgrade Your Life (at Any Age!)

Welcome to (I.A.M) 

My Name is Paul. I am delighted you have stopped by. is dedicated to helping you get unstuck!!!! No matter what areas of your life. (especially those over 40,) so you can have a great life.  

Our focus at (I.A.M) is to provide you will solutions to overcome any area in your life where you are stuck. This could include making money online, relationships, setting personal goals, overcoming procrastination.

At (IAM), we are firm believers that with the right thinking, you can overcome any old pattern which is holding you back from all you can be. By adding some new skills, knowledge, etc, it will enable you to make more money, have better relationships, have more fun, and experience a wider variety of opportunities. 

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How to Use Emotional Intelligence to Create Great Relationships.

The Power of Emotional Intelligence

Do you know how to use emotional intelligence to create great relationships? Do you want a better relationship, especially with someone who is important to you?

Additionally, do you know that mastering emotional intelligence skills can help you dramatically improve most areas of your life? It can help to lower stress, improve your health, and to dramatically improve your relationships, whether personal or work, etc.? 

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Why It’s Important to Challenge Your Own Beliefs


Are your beliefs even true or Do they Serve You (Still)
Are your beliefs even true or Do they Serve You (S

Do you have any idea why it’s important to challenge your own beliefs? Do you ever give your own beliefs much thought to whether they are accurate or serve you? Do you ever question your beliefs? Most people don’t know they should weigh more than they think. It’s essential to challenge your own beliefs for several reasons. 

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How to Manage Your Money like a Millionaire

Disclaimer: This post is not meant as financial advice. Please see the full disclosure at the end of the post.


How have the last few years been to your financial situation? Has it given you more thought for the future? Has it highlighted that you are tired of living paycheck to paycheck? Are you concerned that you don’t even know where to begin to change this situation? If so, it’s time to learn how to manage your money like a millionaire! 

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How to Raise Your Self Confidence

You are likely well aware that improving your impression of yourself or your own “self-esteem” can make significant differences in your life and improve your self-confidence. When your internal sense of self rises, you will feel a higher level of self-esteem. Additionally, your perceptions of rejection or failure will diminish, and you will find that you are a lot more resilient. If your self-esteem is high enough, you will feel more self-composure and less fear. In stressful situations, hormones that have adverse effects and can cause stress, such as cortisol, will be released less quickly. But even if you are luckily blessed with high confidence, it’s not always easy to improve it. So, how do you raise your self-confidence?

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The Five Main Areas of Personal Development

Create and Amazing Life Great Life, Personal Development Improves Your Life

If you are like most people, you want to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. You want to grow and become the best possible version of yourself. Personal development can help you do just that! Personal development is a journey, not a destination. Personal development is for you if you are interested in improving your life and relationships and enjoying your world more. For this journey with Personal development to be effective, it will be important to understand the basics of the 5 Key areas of Personal Development. 

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How to Lower Stress to Improve Your Life?

Stress is a pervasive issue in today’s fast-paced society. This has been made even worse over the past few years since the start of a pandemic! There are many causes of stress that we all experience. For example, it can result from interactions about work, disagreements with your family or friends, money issues, or virtually anything that happens in your environment or is driven by your thoughts or buried emotional wounds. The real trick is how can you lower stress levels in your life?

What is stress

Stress is a normal physiological response to demanding or unexpected situations that you are faced with. It is characterized by the body’s release of hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol. These hormones prepare the body for a survival-based fight-or-flight response.

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How to Use Forgiveness to Positively Improve your Health.

Do you have somebody you don’t want to forgive in your life? Did someone do something that upset you or that you judge that their actions were incorrect or, at a very minimum, distasteful? Is there one or more people from your past that you had issues with, where, as soon as their name is mentioned, you feel yourself getting upset? Do you understand how to use forgiveness to improve your health, and improve the quality of your life?

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How to REPLACE “Victim” and “Blame” with Self-Responsibility

Do you think you are a victim?
Replace Victim and Blame in your Life

Are you in charge of your life- all aspects of it, or is somebody else responsible for you? I know on an intellectual level, it’s, sure, I’m in charge. But more importantly, where does your mind go when you have problems or setbacks. Do you believe you are in control of your life or do you think you are a victim and someone else is to blame, or do you blame the dog? Its time to replace “Victim” and “Blame” and take 100% self-responsibility for your life!

One way to answer this properly is to look at your historical behaviors. For example, do you take full responsibility for your behaviors and emotional responses-and I mean all of them? Or do you spend most of your time, again, when there are problems, casting the blame on others or other things for the results that are appearing in your life! Do you even blame it on the weather? 

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How to Break Bad Habits of Unsuccessful People

A word of the wise: If you want to have a wonderful life, it’s much more likely to happen if you have good habits to support you. Learn great lessons and break bad habits used by unsuccessful people and if you have them, it’s time to master these habits on your road to success.

The following is a list of”failure” habits used by people who fail at excelling in life:

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How to Find The “Gift” In Every Situation

There Is More to Any Situation Than it Appears.

No matter what you do, there’s a good chance you will come up against a roadblock or some overlooked obstacle. It’s just part of life. At the time, it may appear to be overwhelming. Whatever has popped up would feel like everything you’ve done to date has been a waste of time. That’s the thing about life! You never know how it’s going to work out or what’s going to pop up. That’s why it is so important to learn how to find the gift in every situation

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