How to Get Unstuck/ Upgrade Your Life (at Any Age!)

Welcome to (I.A.M) 

My Name is Paul. I am delighted you have stopped by. is dedicated to helping you get unstuck!!!! No matter what areas of your life. (especially those over 40,) so you can have a great life.  

Our focus at (I.A.M) is to provide you will solutions to overcome any area in your life where you are stuck. This could include making money online, relationships, setting personal goals, overcoming procrastination.

At (IAM), we are firm believers that with the right thinking, you can overcome any old pattern which is holding you back from all you can be. By adding some new skills, knowledge, etc, it will enable you to make more money, have better relationships, have more fun, and experience a wider variety of opportunities. 

Here is an example of our focus on making money Go Here 

Here is an example of one of our success mindset posts: Go Here

These days, especially with all the dramatic changes to the way of life we have experienced over the last 20 years, it seems like many people are looking to “reboot or reinvent” their lives. Additionally, there are many areas in our lives where we do things with serious consequences, such as relationships where most people have little or no training. With 50%+ divorce rates and 40%+ of children coming out of childhood with insecure attachment, there are better ways to be.

Our goal is to do whatever we can to help!


Numerous contributing factors culminate in the results we have or what we have created in our lives. Many of these contributing factors operate below our conscious understanding. (We will be discussing this in detail going forward.)

When we are young, most of us have these fantastic dreams, yet few people manifest their goals when they are young.

As we age, we realize that we’re not living the “life of our dreams.” It’s just not the life we dreamed we would have when we were kids. In fact, far too often, especially these days, people find that they live a life that’s not even supporting the quality of life that they would like or maybe even one that even supports them, financially or emotionally.

There are many reasons for this

Sometimes we just need to make some tweaks in how we are living or to change or challenge old beliefs in order to enable us to take action so that we can create the life that we want.

We may need to learn new skills, something that can be a lot easier as the result of the introduction of the Internet.

Sometimes, we just need some help to get to where we want to go!

It may even demand a significant overhaul of our thinking or how we live our lives. We may need to look deeply at our beliefs, review how we took them on, And most importantly, whether they serve us or help us live our dreams.

If not, we can then consciously and purposefully update them!  

OK! How? yup, we will be spending lots of time on this

This site was designed to help you to have a great life. We will continually provide information and various forms of support so that you can live the life you want.

We want you to know upfront that we don’t believe in wasting money on overpriced online courses. It is our belief that you should only invest that money in ways that improve your quality of life. To support you, we search out great sources of information that are either free or very reasonably priced.

For example,  Go HERE

We are here to help in any way we can.

This could include things like:

  • Find great resources that don’t cost you a fortune.
  • Help you to focus on clear goals for what you want to create.
  • Help you to identify old beliefs or unresolved emotional issues that are holding you back and then help you transform them.
  • Point out ways to make money online to create financial freedom.
  • Help you to identify anything that is holding you back from having an extraordinary life.
  • Find ways to help you have a great and stable retirement.
  • Introduce you to ways to have better relationships.
  • Show you how to have more personal satisfaction.
  • Point out ways to have better family lives.
  • Help you to learn and utilize effective ways to overcome stress.
  • Show you the benefits of powerful self-talk.
  • And lots more…….

Check out our book bundle on Creating a Growth Mindset HERE. This will help you master a Growth Mindset and is available for only $7.99

About US

My name is Paul and I put together with my friend Peter. Pete and I are in our 60s and have oodles of (great and not so great) life experiences :). We both have owned successful businesses, have been involved in raising millions of dollars, are well-traveled, and even better – we are a lot of fun to be with!

I been doing personal development work for over 30 years. It started out with seminars, copious reading and ended up with me getting a Master practitioner in NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP) and hypnotherapy designation.

I’m a strong believer that virtually anything is possible with the right mindset. Sometimes what gets in our way is things that happen to us a long time ago which get stored in our neurology. These obstacles can lie below conscious thought and need to get brought into consciousness so they can be transformed. All of this is possible and we hope you find some amazing solutions at

Anyway, let’s get going!

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